Hi everyone, sorry it's been so long since i last posted anything here but i was waiting until i had been for a clearer scan... Well here it is!
Our baby 'GIRL' at 24 weeks old! Waving hello to you all!
We went for the 20 weeks scan, but it was not a very good day. My mother couldn't come because she had hurt her back and was in too much discomfort to travel to Manchester.
The date of the scan was 14th May... Rangers Vs City... and as mentioned the scan was in Manchester!. The crowd had already started to form when we arrived at St. Peters square at 10am on the metrolink, a lot of them were already drinking or drunk!
We got a taxi to the hospital from the metrolink as usual and thought nothing more about it whilst we had the scan done. Everything was ok, but the pictures are not very clear. Some of the staff were leaving early because of the football and everything was delayed then rushed.
We left the hospital in a taxi to go back to St. Peters Square Metrolink station, slowly crawled through the mounting traffic and crowds and eventually made it to the station (£7 worse off!). We waited for around 15 minutes, surrounded by drunken scotts in kilts only to hear an announcement over the tannoy that the tram had been cancelled and we were to get to Victoria station for a tram back to our destination. If we had managed to get another taxi from there it would have taken ages to get to Victoria station because the traffic was not moving and it would have cost more money than we had. Another lady who was waiting for the same tram said that she knew the way and suggested that we walk together so we did...
We had to pick our way through crowds of very loud football fans all the way to Victoria. It was a very frightening experience, especially because of my disability AND being 20 weeks pregnant, because of which i was unable to walk fast and got very tired very quickly. Our walking partner was in more of a rush and wanted to get out of the crowd so she gave us directions and abandoned us to walk at her own pace, so off she went. We carried on for a while then stopped off at a pub that wasn't letting football fans in for a quick rest, and Paul needed the loo! we came out and had to ask a policeman further directions then carried on walking to the station. I dont know how many miles it is, but to me it seemed like 10 or more, it took us around an hour to get to the station but we were relieved when we turned the final corner and headed in. The tram was fairly empty all the way to our stop, we got in the car, heaved a big sigh of relief then headed home.
Todays experience was totally different. We had found out recently about Patient transport services that uses an ambulance service to take patients to appointments. They use taxi's, vans and minibuses, collect from your door, take you to the hospital, then take you back home again after. It is free and stress free. Only problems are that you do have to share with strangers and there are a few pick ups and drop offs and you can wait a while for the return ambulance, but it cost nothing and is much much easier than public transport. We got there just on time for our appointment and a lot happier.
We asked the sonographer to check if she has my condition and it seems like she has. Paul and i are happy though, as long as in the main she is healthy, which she appears to be. Her head and body measured the right size for a 24 week scan, but her arms and legs measured the size of a 19-20 week scan. There is also a bit more fluid in the fetal sack than in a usual pregnancy, but we have been told that is common in babies that have skeletal dysplasia (growing problems). Everything else measures up as it should and it doesn't look like she has a Cleft lip or palate, (but that is not conclusive) and the sonographer couldn't see any problems with the hips either but again she wasn't 100% sure. So really her only problem is that she will be small in stature like me, another real Faerie!!!
I knew from the start that i was having a girl (womens intuition i suppose) and when the sonographer confirmed it i was so pleased. We would have been happy with either but with a girl we can dress her up pretty like a fae, and it will be easier for her as she gets older because i will be able to help her with any problems to do with her condition.
We are booked in for another scan in 4 weeks time, just to check on the progress of her growth. I will of course get another piccy and post it here. As yet we have not decided on a name, but we do have a few very nice and unusual names that we are seriously thinking about. We will let you know when we have decided, but any more suggestions would be very welcome. Just remember, it has to be a nice but unusual name.
For now i am going to leave it there as it's late, but i thought i should post something here tonight to keep everyone up to date with the new fae,
Thank you for being so patient whilst waiting for news and for all your kind words.
Faerie Blessings
Karina Fae, Paul and Baby Fae


