As a person who was born
in the South, I used to hate my birth area. I had thought that people from my
region of the country were uneducated, religious zealots, and limited in their
thinking capacity. I refused to consider myself as a Southerner and even took
great pains and claims to inform everyone that I went to college up North. I
wanted to talk like Northerners and even tried to absorb my father’s accent (he
is from Massachusetts) when speaking to others. In doing so, I wanted
people to know that I was an intelligent being who, after realizing that the
South would never be on any stimulating intellectual level, wanted to make
myself a child of the North / New
England. However, after
yesterday, my whole outlook changed. During my lunch, I walked down Main Street downtown to the post office, walking by the store
for the Center for Southern Folklore. I had walked by that store for years with
barely a passing interest for going in, but for some reason I wanted to
yesterday. So, once I sent my paid books to their happy destinations, I walked
across the street and into the store. Immediately, I was greeted by a young
woman with white blonde hair seated behind the counter that had a sign boasting
of good peach cobbler and ice cream. As I walked around, I noticed the many
black and white photographs of different people from Memphis’ past, black and white, whose faces told of a
different time, a happier time, a sadder time. I found myself staring at two
photographs in particular: a young white woman from the 30s who stood next to a
bale of cotton and two black women from the 40s who were in a beauty shop. My
heart began to thump wildly as I walked around the store, noticing the pictures
of long ago mingled with blues music pumping from the speakers all around.
Artwork took up every corner of the store and even Elvis had a part to play in
the décor. Food items of the South lingered on tables and small plates and
books speaking of myths and legends of the South, the Blues, and famous
Southerners, filled the shelves. Suddenly, a thought I had never had before
crept into my mind: I felt proud to be a Southerner. There is no other place in
the country that can speak of men selling their souls to the Devil in exchange
for guitar lessons, or birthplaces of music heard around the world, or even
food that will kill you while you are smiling. I walked out of the store, promising to return
to purchase the two pictures, my heart leaping with joy and pride. Whether you
hail home as cosmopolitan and fast paced Atlanta, jazzy and spicy New
Orleans, soulful and yet
tense Memphis, or laid back and genteel Savannah, be proud of your roots now and forever. I know I
am, finally.
"Southern Charm" comes across to me as a (usually) gentle frame of mind... a cultural richness. It's just that, as with other cultures, it can be limited and exclusive, locking out good hearts hidden behind veils of "otherness."
I hope some day we wont be afraid of open education, one where "reality" can be weighed for validness and fair-thinking, instead of the trap of the insecure: "They're not like us."
There is only one "race" that matters, after all. It's the Human one.
I always felt the way about PA. I think there are the good and bad in all places, and living rurally usually means living with intolerance, uneducation, poverty, and people who have never been over the mountain, so to speak. However, there is down-home comfort that is forgotten in other snobbish areas. I guess there's always something, and the grass is not always greener in the end.
I grew up in the north, but have visited much of the south.My mother, being a civil war author and historian, I was raised with an appreciation of the north and the south. I love Tenessee,
! and there's nowhere else like New Orleans! Savannah is just gorgeous! So much amazing culture and music has come from the south. You should be very proud to be from Dixieland, darling! B*B*
"Southern Charm" comes across to me as a (usually) gentle frame of mind... a cultural richness. It's just that, as with other cultures, it can be limited and exclusive, locking out good hearts hidden behind veils of "otherness."
TommyI hope some day we wont be afraid of open education, one where "reality" can be weighed for validness and fair-thinking, instead of the trap of the insecure: "They're not like us."
There is only one "race" that matters, after all. It's the Human one.
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