I'm not able to comment or anything on this site, as it keeps telling me I need to be a user in good standing in order to do things! What am I missing??

 Also, when I look at my friends' friends, I'm not showing up! I have 13 friends, but I'm not able to see myself on any of their friends lists! AND, when I do a search for my name, I don't show up. ANNNNNNNND, if I do a search for my age range, I don't show up either!!!

 What's going on? Is this supposed to happen, or am I being thick? :) The only thing I can find in the FAQ is that you must have a profile picture in order to show up in friend searches. But I've had one since the beginning, and I even CHANGED it, and I'm still not showing up anywhere. :(

 Is there a secret I'm not privy to!? :)