Tam

    Gender: Female
    Location: Suffolk, UK
    Relationship: Single
    Orientation: Straight
    Children: Not for Me
    Body Type: Average
    Height: 5'8"
    Religion: Christian - other
    Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
    About Me: I'm nearly 40, happily married, love all things fairy and enchanted. Still a total kid at heart. I love gardening, yoga, holistic healing, romantic period novels. I run a fairy inspired website: http://www.TamsTreasuresOnline.co.uk
    Music: Absolutely everything new age, classical, anything from the 50's-80's with a little 90's thrown in.
    Movies: The Secret Garden, The Notebook, Sound of Music, Gone With the Wind, All the Harry Potter movies, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Stardust
    TV: The Ghost Whisperer, Grey's Anatomy, Lost, Emmerdale, Eastenders, Coronation Street.
    Books: Ethan Frome, The Secret Garden, Jane Eyre, all of the Jane Austin novels.
    Likes: rain on Sunday mornings, the colour green first thing in spring, the smell of logs burning, listening to my nieces and nephews talk, my cat & dog, my husband :-)
    Dislikes: Liars, hypocrites, text speak, poor spelling and grammar, lima beans, liver, rudeness, call marketers
    Hobbies: gardening, web design, travel, reading
    Vices: bread, anything doughy, pretzels, and salty popcorn.
    Heroes: My husband for always loving, supporting and standing by me.

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    Is it all down hill from here?

    Wednesday, April 16, 2008, 08:17 AM [Three H's Home, Hubby, Health]

    I never once dreamed I'd ever make it to 40, it seemed ancient. Yet, here I am counting down the months til I join the next decade.

    A couple days ago I pulled something in my back and now everything else seems to be falling apart as well. Is this what I have to look forward to?

    Every breath I take makes me wince with pain and walking down the stairs has to be the absolute worst. I walk around oohing and ahhing like an old granny.

    I initially started my 39th birthday in December with the attitude I was going to be happier, healthier and more adventurous in my 40's. I made a list of things I wanted to do and accomplish before I hit the big 40.

    Here it is now nearly 1/3 of the year gone, my body is falling apart and all those dreams of sky diving, learning Karate and how to Salsa are nearly out the window.  Now I'm just hoping and praying I wake up without a back ache or hoping one of my knees doesn't blow out on me.

    Is it all down hill from here?

     

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    That depends on what your definition of "down hill" is...physical...well maybe, at 45, I have alot to the ailments you do,and no, I'm not what I was in my 20's or even my 30's....But mentally, and artistically, and spiritually, and emotionally...I get better everyday...and you will to. Hang in there!!! It will get better.

    Kim
    April 16, 2008
    07:14 PM CST

    Myself, I was sort of looking forward to 'downhill' -- less energy expended, climbing being much harder. But then, my health problems began 30 years ago, so I've become 'accustomed' to the aches and pains. But age is just a number -- you don't have to accept it. Yes, my body's been around for more than five and a half decades, but inside my head, I'm still twenty...

    And that you've obviously pulled a muscle in your back doesn't mean it will stay that way. Eight years ago, I was told I'd always be in a wheelchair. Today I walked five miles before breakfast...

    RdeHwyll
    April 17, 2008
    09:25 AM CST

    Welcome

    Friday, April 11, 2008, 08:52 AM [General]

    Welcome to my little piece of cyber space. I hope you'll stop by for a chat.

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    Welcome Tam!

    Have a great time here, and be sure to snoop around and introduce yourself!

    Yama
    April 11, 2008
    05:28 PM CST
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    Hi Tam, your quote is one of my very favourite. Thank you for joining our EF community & your kind welcome. Good to have your enchanted company here - I adore doughy bread too, yum! (If there's an Auntie Anne's Soft Pretzels up in Suffolk, they're delicious ;) I haven't seen the film, The Notebook but it sounds right up my street & I'll try to find it, much appreciated - rather too many action movies watched in this house, sigh...
    Big smiles & waves to East Anglia,

    Be
    April 16, 2008
    07:43 AM CST

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